Child’s Experience with Music
lCrystallizing experiences spark the musical intelligence, starting off the development of talents and abilities.  These experiences may provide a turning point for the child. 
lParalyzing experiences shut down the musical intelligence, discouraging the development of talents and abilities.  A child's musical growth is easily stunted when he/she is told to "stop that racket" as he/she practices an instrument.
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Gardner, 1983